Mastering Daily Interactions: 19 Psychological Tricks That Work
In a world filled with complex theories and elaborate strategies from the realms of psychology and neuro-linguistic programming, there are also simple yet effective methods anyone can use to improve daily interactions. Here are 19 psychological tricks that can help you get what you want from others, enhancing your communication and relationships effortlessly.
- Avoid “Could You”
When making a request, skip starting with “Could you?” This phrasing may lead the other person to think it’s a theoretical question. Instead, say, “Please call the neighbors.” This makes your request clear and more likely to be fulfilled. - Uncomfortable Eye Contact
Want to make someone feel uneasy? During a conversation, look at the middle of their forehead. It creates a sense of scrutiny that may make them uncomfortable. - Pause for Truth
If someone is dodging a question, pause and maintain eye contact. This discomfort often prompts them to share more details, and they may reveal the truth if they were previously lying. - Ask for Help
In a new job or school, if you want someone to like you, ask them to explain something. This approach boosts their mood and fosters a positive connection. - Nod for Affirmative Responses
When asking a question you want a “yes” to, nod slightly while speaking. This subtle cue encourages a positive response. - Distracted Actions
If someone is focused on a task, extend your hand to take something from them. They may not even notice, making this a handy trick when you need to retrieve items discreetly. - Reverse Psychology
Casually imply that someone probably can’t do a task. Most people will feel motivated to prove you wrong and rise to the challenge. - Nod During Conversations
Similar to the previous trick, start nodding gently during discussions. This can make the person feel more engaged and attentive to what you’re saying. - Prepare for Negotiation Disappointment
When negotiating, express mild disappointment with an offer you like. This can lead to better conditions and more favorable outcomes. - Morning Boost
When your alarm rings, sit up and make two fists as if you’ve just scored a soccer goal. It sounds quirky, but it can help energize you and make getting out of bed easier. - Absurd Phrase Technique
To calm worries about forgetting to lock the door or turn off appliances, say a silly phrase (e.g., “green rabbit”) while doing it. This anchors the action in your memory. - Kindness Against Drama
If someone tries to argue, respond with kindness or remain silent. Ignoring them can be more effective than engaging in a conflict. - Reframe Requests
Instead of saying “do this,” try “start with this.” This makes the task seem smaller and encourages action. - Public Speaking Tips
Always bring a bottle of water for public speaking. It not only helps with dry mouth but also gives you a moment to regroup if you forget what to say. - Handle Stares
If someone stares at you in public, keep your gaze on their shoes. This can be disconcerting for them, shifting the focus away from you. - Change Perception
If you seem worried around someone, they may start to feel anxious too. Be mindful of your demeanor. - Softly Address Mistakes
To avoid sounding accusatory, rephrase criticism. Instead of saying, “You left the window open,” try, “The window was left open all night.” This is gentler and promotes learning. - Sleep Suggestion
If you didn’t sleep well, tell yourself you did. A study found that genuinely believing you’re rested can enhance cognitive function. - Memory for Beginnings and Ends
People tend to remember what happens at the start and end of the day best. For job interviews, choose times at the beginning or end of the workday to leave a lasting impression.
Do you have any other effective tricks to share? Let us know in the comments!